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November 2, 2023

The Real Deal about Eating and Diets

How often have you felt guilty about enjoying your favorite foods? The thought of diets, calorie counts, and food restrictions can make your head spin and your heart sink. Let’s get real about this, friend.

You’re at a family gathering, and the table’s adorned with tempting dishes. As you reach for that extra slice of cake, the guilt monster starts creeping in. Your mind races with calorie counts and images of the scale.

It’s time to address this guilt-tripping carousel. The constant back and forth between savoring your favorite foods and feeling guilty for doing so is exhausting. But remember, you are not alone in this struggle.

Here are actionable steps that will help you break away from this cycle and learn to enjoy food without guilt.

Step 1: Ditch the Food Guilt Narrative

The first step is acknowledging the guilt and understanding its source. Notice how you label certain foods as “good” or “bad.” This mindset shift is pivotal.

Step 2: Reframe Your Relationship with Food

Let’s reassess this relationship. No more labeling food as sinful. Instead, acknowledge that all foods nourish us in some way – mentally or physically.

Step 3: Embrace Balanced Eating Habits

It’s about finding a balance, not an extreme. Reject the idea of restricting your favorite foods. It’s more about moderating portions and understanding that all foods have a place in our lives.

Step 4: Practice Mindful Eating

Enjoy your food mindfully. Appreciate the flavors, the textures, and the joy that good food brings. Slow down and savor each bite – it’s an experience!

Step 5: Fill Your Environment with Positivity

Your environment has a significant impact. Unfollow anyone on social media who makes you feel negative about food or body image. Surround yourself with body diversity.

Your Journey to Food Freedom

By following these steps, you’re on your way to cultivating a healthy and guilt-free relationship with food. It’s not just about eating; it’s about enjoying the flavors and nurturing your body.

Stay tuned for more uplifting and positive content from Actively You, dedicated to nurturing self-love and a balanced approach to life.

Brittany Frino
Founder, Actively You

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I get it. Truly.

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But here’s what I need you to hear:

👉 It’s not you. It’s the approach.

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👉 It’s not you. It’s the approach.

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No wonder it hasn’t worked.

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✔ and actually enjoy exercise

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My coaching is built around helping you:
✔ build strength (without burnout)
✔ create routines that fit your life
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Because that’s what makes it stick.

And when it sticks? Everything changes.

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I get it. Truly.

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👉 It’s not you. It’s the approach.

You were never meant to:
• Do 2-hour workouts
• Cut out all your favourite foods
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No wonder it hasn’t worked.

My coaching is built around helping you:
✔ build strength (without burnout)
✔ create routines that fit your life
✔ feel confident in your body again
✔ and actually enjoy exercise

Because that’s what makes it stick.

And when it sticks? Everything changes.

If you’re ready to do this differently this time…
send me a message 💙

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I get it. Truly.

The amount of women I speak to who feel like they’re the problem is heartbreaking.
But here’s what I need you to hear:

👉 It’s not you. It’s the approach.

You were never meant to:
• Do 2-hour workouts
• Cut out all your favourite foods
• Rely on motivation to stay consistent

No wonder it hasn’t worked.

My coaching is built around helping you:
✔ build strength (without burnout)
✔ create routines that fit your life
✔ feel confident in your body again
✔ and actually enjoy exercise

Because that’s what makes it stick.

And when it sticks? Everything changes.

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send me a message 💙

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I get it. Truly.

The amount of women I speak to who feel like they’re the problem is heartbreaking.
But here’s what I need you to hear:

👉 It’s not you. It’s the approach.

You were never meant to:
• Do 2-hour workouts
• Cut out all your favourite foods
• Rely on motivation to stay consistent

No wonder it hasn’t worked.

My coaching is built around helping you:
✔ build strength (without burnout)
✔ create routines that fit your life
✔ feel confident in your body again
✔ and actually enjoy exercise

Because that’s what makes it stick.

And when it sticks? Everything changes.

If you’re ready to do this differently this time…
send me a message 💙

#brisbanepersonaltraining #brisbanepersonaltrainer #personaltrainerbrisbane #brisbane #brisbanept
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More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

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But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏

More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more.

Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight.

It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙

Tell me in the comments…
What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪

#NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
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But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏

More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more.

Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight.

It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙

Tell me in the comments…
What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪

#NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
So many women think their progress is only measured by the number on the scale.

But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏

More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more.

Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight.

It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙

Tell me in the comments…
What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪

#NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
So many women think their progress is only measured by the number on the scale.

But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏

More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more.

Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight.

It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙

Tell me in the comments…
What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪

#NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
So many women think their progress is only measured by the number on the scale.

But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏

More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more.

Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight.

It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙

Tell me in the comments…
What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪

#NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
So many women think their progress is only measured by the number on the scale.

But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏

More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more.

Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight.

It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙

Tell me in the comments…
What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪

#NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
So many women think their progress is only measured by the number on the scale.

But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏

More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more.

Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight.

It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙

Tell me in the comments…
What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪

#NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
So many women think their progress is only measured by the number on the scale.

But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏

More energy.
Feeling stronger.
Clothes fitting better.
Less food guilt.
Actually enjoying movement.
LESS PAIN!!! 

These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more.

Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight.

It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙

Tell me in the comments…
What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪

#NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
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So many women think their progress is only measured by the number on the scale. But your body is changing in so many other ways 👏 More energy. Feeling stronger. Clothes fitting better. Less food guilt. Actually enjoying movement. LESS PAIN!!! These things matter just as much. Sometimes even more. Because the real goal isn’t just to lose weight. It’s to build a body and lifestyle that actually feels good to live in 💙 Tell me in the comments… What’s a non-scale win you’ve noticed lately? 💪 #NonScaleVictories #SustainableFitness #WomensFitnessAU #ActivelyYou #StrengthNotSize
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For so many women, exercise has always felt like something we have to do.

To shrink ourselves, to burn off our meals and to fix our bodies.

But your body was never something that needed to be fixed or punished. It was meant to be strong. 💪 

Strong enough to carry the groceries.
Strong enough to run with your kids.
Strong enough to handle whatever life throws your way.

The goal isn’t to exercise for 12 weeks.

The goal is to build a body that supports you for the rest of your life.

The women I train aren’t chasing perfection. They’re building:

✨ Strength
✨ Confidence
✨ Energy
✨ A routine that actually fits their life

No extreme workouts, No all-or-nothing mindset, No “start again Monday” cycle.

Just learning how to move their bodies in a way that feels good and lasts.

Because strong women aren’t built in short challenges.

They’re built through consistency, support, and believing they deserve to feel good in their bodies. 💪

If you’re ready to start moving your body in a way that actually lasts, send me a message

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#strengthforwomen
#womensfitnesscoach
#fitnessforlife
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For so many women, exercise has always felt like something we have to do. To shrink ourselves, to burn off our meals and to fix our bodies. But your body was never something that needed to be fixed or punished. It was meant to be strong. 💪 Strong enough to carry the groceries. Strong enough to run with your kids. Strong enough to handle whatever life throws your way. The goal isn’t to exercise for 12 weeks. The goal is to build a body that supports you for the rest of your life. The women I train aren’t chasing perfection. They’re building: ✨ Strength ✨ Confidence ✨ Energy ✨ A routine that actually fits their life No extreme workouts, No all-or-nothing mindset, No “start again Monday” cycle. Just learning how to move their bodies in a way that feels good and lasts. Because strong women aren’t built in short challenges. They’re built through consistency, support, and believing they deserve to feel good in their bodies. 💪 If you’re ready to start moving your body in a way that actually lasts, send me a message #internationalwomensday #strengthforwomen #womensfitnesscoach #fitnessforlife #womensupportingwomen
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So thrilled to finally be feeling like a human again now that my mounjaro dose is going down!! 

I’m currently on a bit less than half the dose I was on that I needed to lose weight, which has made the side effects so much less.

My side effects were really bad and I felt quite nauseous almost all of the time so to feel good 90% of the time now is amazing.

Unfortunately, I’ll have to stay on the medication a long time but there’s not much I can do about that as my insulin resistance is caused by genetic factors and endometriosis so no amount of diet and exercise could change that.

I’m still battling some fatigue but again the endometriosis contributes towards that but I’m so thrilled to finally be feeling so much better. 

Have you started coming down off of your dose? How are you feeling?

Ps. Some PT sessions are opening up soon on Wednesdays so if you’re in Camp Hill and surrounds of #brisbane send me a DM 🩷🩷
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So thrilled to finally be feeling like a human again now that my mounjaro dose is going down!! I’m currently on a bit less than half the dose I was on that I needed to lose weight, which has made the side effects so much less. My side effects were really bad and I felt quite nauseous almost all of the time so to feel good 90% of the time now is amazing. Unfortunately, I’ll have to stay on the medication a long time but there’s not much I can do about that as my insulin resistance is caused by genetic factors and endometriosis so no amount of diet and exercise could change that. I’m still battling some fatigue but again the endometriosis contributes towards that but I’m so thrilled to finally be feeling so much better. Have you started coming down off of your dose? How are you feeling? Ps. Some PT sessions are opening up soon on Wednesdays so if you’re in Camp Hill and surrounds of #brisbane send me a DM 🩷🩷
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